How to become my submissive
For a newcomer and willing to become my submissive…
When introducing yourself to a dominant and powerful woman, it's essential to present yourself with confidence and respect. Begin by showing you've done your homework—acknowledge her accomplishments and the work she's put out into the world. Use a clear and direct approach, stating your purpose with honesty and elegance. Whether you're seeking a professional connection, a mentorship, or something more personal, be specific about what you hope to gain and what you can offer in return. The key is to demonstrate that you value her time and her position, while also presenting yourself as someone worthy of her attention. An introduction that is both humble and self-assured will stand out.
As I’ve often said, a true partnership is built on respect, discretion, and a constant challenge to excellence. It is not something to be taken lightly, nor is it a path for those who are unprepared. When a man wishes to approach me, he must first understand this. He must show that he has done his homework, for my time is my most valuable asset and I do not waste it on those who have not taken the initiative to understand my world.
First, he must present himself with an elegant language. This is not about flowery prose, but about precision and respect. His words must be a reflection of his mind—sharp, clear, and focused. I expect a proper introduction, one that demonstrates that he has read my philosophy, absorbed the lessons on my channels, and understood the principles I uphold. A man who cannot articulate his thoughts with grace and clarity will not earn my attention.
2. Secondly, he must present a clear offer. Vague intentions are a sign of a weak mind. He must know exactly what he wants and what he is prepared to offer in return. This is a transaction of values, not a plea. He must demonstrate how his presence will elevate my world, not merely take from it. He must be specific, confident, and prepared to back his words with action.
3. Finally, a gift is a beautiful gesture, but not just any gift will do. It must be thoughtful, an expression of his understanding of my tastes and my philosophy. It should be a tangible representation of his respect, a piece that speaks to our shared values of beauty, rarity, and challenge. A gift is a statement, and I expect it to be a compelling one.
After he has done all this, I may choose to contact him. My world is based on discretion, trust, and the constant pursuit of a higher standard. If he is uncertain about these principles, a consultation call is the respectful path. It shows he values my time and process. Only then can we begin to see if he is capable of rising to the challenge.
‘he is interesting to me, who is willing to do everything for my happiness and his submission to me’
Key Traits I Appreciate in a Candidate
Loyalty and Trustworthiness: A dominant woman needs a submissive partner she can rely on completely. Trust is the foundation of the relationship, allowing her to feel secure in her position and confident that her partner will follow through on his commitments. Loyalty is paramount, as it ensures he is devoted to her and the dynamic they share.
Financial success and security are also important. His ability to earn and manage money is a powerful display of his competence. This is not about being a traditional provider, but about using his financial power as a tangible act of submission, proving he can provide stability and that he trusts her completely with his well-being. This sense of security allows her to focus on other aspects of their dynamic without worry.
Respect and Dedication: He must show unwavering respect for her authority, her decisions, and her lifestyle. This isn't blind obedience, but a profound acknowledgement of her role. Dedication is shown through his willingness to prioritise her needs and wishes, making her a central part of his life.
Intelligence and Capability: A dominant woman typically doesn't want a passive or witless partner. She seeks a man who is intelligent, capable, and competent in his own right. This allows her to delegate tasks and challenges, knowing he can handle them, which makes him a more valuable and engaging partner.
Discipline and Self-Control: A submissive man must be disciplined and have a strong sense of self-control. This allows him to accept her guidance and follow her rules without resistance. His ability to manage his own impulses and emotions ensures a stable and predictable dynamic.
A Desire to Serve: The core of the dynamic is his genuine desire to serve her. This isn't a coerced or forced action, but a deep-seated want to please her, to make her life easier, and to fulfil her desires. This is the driving force that makes the relationship work.
Ultimately, I wish to be with the right person by my side. We should fit each other.
D/s dynamic is the one where both are responsible for making each other happy in different ways. It’s not traditional relations, but it’s the ones that are the most powerful. A place where we gain, not lose
I prefer quality to quantity. Be kind, intelligent and generous, treat me like a Queen. The world bends to my will.
Milady Vogel
